Seeing the heading of this article would make you think that what I am going to discuss in today's article.
Well today's article will not be based on self-improvement advises and tips, but here we are going to discuss about the reality, the reality of your life.
In this article, we will talk whether do you have the control over your life, that is, are you living the way you actually are.
Before moving towards this interesting topic, go and checkout our previous article where we discussed about the bad & common behaviour habits developed in teenagers which should be prevented.
Well today's article will not be based on self-improvement advises and tips, but here we are going to discuss about the reality, the reality of your life.
In this article, we will talk whether do you have the control over your life, that is, are you living the way you actually are.
Before moving towards this interesting topic, go and checkout our previous article where we discussed about the bad & common behaviour habits developed in teenagers which should be prevented.
So let us first start with a short intro regarding the topic we are going to discuss. Then I'll we sharing my views on some of the criteria of this topic.
Introduction
In the beginning only, I want to start this introduction with a question that are you having the full control over your life?
Here I'm not talking about someone else is controlling your actions or you're not independent or free.
Here I am asking are you living the natural way of your life, the way you're, without being unnatural due to others?
If your answer is yes, that you have the control over your life then checkout all these criteria and after proper analysis, conclude whether you're truly free or not.
Now if you have already concluded that you are controlled by other people, that is, you don't behave in your natural or organic way, then this article is very important for you as I have also shared the way to life naturally.
Here I'm not talking about someone else is controlling your actions or you're not independent or free.
Here I am asking are you living the natural way of your life, the way you're, without being unnatural due to others?
If your answer is yes, that you have the control over your life then checkout all these criteria and after proper analysis, conclude whether you're truly free or not.
Now if you have already concluded that you are controlled by other people, that is, you don't behave in your natural or organic way, then this article is very important for you as I have also shared the way to life naturally.
Controlled By Friends
The factor of being controlled by your friends tops the list as this one is the most common one which most of the students do nowadays.They just want to live the way their friend live. They do all those things which their friend say them whether it is good or bad for them.
For example, suppose your friend has a social media account on various platforms and now he asks you too to join all those platforms.
Even you know that having a account on a single platform is sufficient and expanding more accounts might consume a lot of your time and your focus on studies too.
Even after knowing that it will distract you, you would go and open an account thus disturbing your life.
This is a different example but there are certain changes you make in your looks, way of behaving or talking, thinking that you gonna look cool.
But in reality you aren't living your natural life of behaving and talking but just following your friend's life.
Controlled By Social Media
Another major factor responsible for your life being unnatural is because you tend to become like the models or creators you saw on social media.You want to look like them and the life they live (actually the life they show). Due to this, you start copying all those methods they did such as using of chemicals or even steroids.
You would purchase the harmful & chemical containing thing which they promote and sponsor in return for the money.
In reality they don't even use that products but for money they promote it and you, who want to be like them, purchases that items which instead of making you better, makes your more worse.
Suppose you want to loose fat or want to build a muscular strong body. Now after seeing those creators on social media, you too desire for the same body.
But instead of observing the total hardwork and time they spent on it, you tend to choose the shortcuts which they promote as sponsor.
This way you don't gets the results and after wasting your money, you even feel less motivated or under confident. Even now you need to suffer from its side effects.
Why People Live The Life Of Others?
After explaining some of the example of real-life situations, you might have observed that you yourself have done this in your past or even still doing it.But why do most of the people do this. The reason is simple. Because they want to look cool as the one they are following.
They don't actually see that every person is good in some particular skills and no one can be a master in everything. These people have put a lot of time and hardwork to built their talent.
And now you, who saw them and want to same result as they have try to find shortcuts instead of seeing the actual hardwork over a very long peroid of time they put in.
This is same as people do in stock market. Basically there are investors, who had done great research and have a lot of knowledge and experience, invests their money and becomes rich.
Now a person should see the time he has put in for his research and knowledge and the experience he learnt from his mistakes made him rich.
But instead of this, they too invest money in any stock and regrets on losing a lot of money.
So here when you don't get the result of the thing you heard of or saw on social media, you start feeling depressing and low confident and motivated.
So one should avoid living the life which other lived and start living naturally.
The Right Way Of Copying Someone
Now after discussing all these factors and the cause of this, let's talk about how a person can actually use this in a proper and efficient way.So all you should know is the hardwork and time it requires for mastering every skill. You instead of copying them and finding shortcuts, actually learn from their success and also understand that what did they do to deal with their mistakes.
This way, you would be having the knowledge, the experience and even that zeal and motivation to stick to that skill until you master it.
Don't go for shortcuts and understand that every thing takes time and nothing can give your result within one day.
Also don't get influenced by many creators on social media and live the life naturally the way you're because everyone is differnt and every things suits someone differently.
Conclusion
So these were the factors, its causes and its solution which I have discussed in this article. I hope you understood the thing I want to explain you.
Though the starting and the ending don't relate each other as I have turned the topic totally differnt but even that's good as I have covered two important topic in a single article.
Hope so that it was helpful as usual. Thanks for Reading!
Though the starting and the ending don't relate each other as I have turned the topic totally differnt but even that's good as I have covered two important topic in a single article.
Hope so that it was helpful as usual. Thanks for Reading!
